Mary's Corner

Mary Queen of Heaven Catholic Church
426 N. West Avenue
Elmhurst, Illinois 60126-2171
Parish Office: 630/279-5700
Fax: 630/279-4667


L.O.S.S.  Support Group

(Loving Outreach to Survivors of Suicide)

	Through the collaboration of Catholic Charities (from the 
Archdiocese of Chicago and the Diocese of Joliet), support groups 
are in place for anyone who has lost a relative or friend to 
suicide.  A trained facilitator and a mental health professional 
assist these groups.

	The groups meet from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. on either the first 
Tuesday of the month, the third Wednesday or the fourth Tuesday 
of the month.

The next meeting dates are as follows:


Feb. 1	Catholic Charities Office
	270 N. Schuyler Ave. in Kankakee

Feb. 16 	St. Paul the Apostle Activity Center 
		130 Woodlawn in Joliet

Feb. 22 	St. Daniel the Prophet Parish Center
	101 West Loop Drive in Wheaton

	For further information, please call the L.O.S.S. Program 
Center at 312-655-7283.


Help Others With Your Extras

	The Society of St. Vincent de Paul is collecting house 
wares that are clean and in good condition to help people in 
need.   Check around your household.  Do you have items that you 
just don't use anymore?  Do you need a little space?  There are 
people that would be delighted to receive your extras.

	The Society is looking for glassware, dishes, pots and 
pans, bake ware, utensils, small working appliances, lamps, 
knick-knacks, and miscellaneous household items.

	Please call 630-231-4658 for the society to send their 
truck to your home to pick up your donations.  Clothing donations 
will be accepted along with your house wares.  Receipts are 
always gladly given.


Scripture Study Starting Soon:

The Acts of the Apostles

	"Now when they [rulers, elders, and scribes] saw the 
boldness of Peter and John and realized that they were uneducated 
and ordinary men, they were amazed..." Acts 4:13

	We are looking for additional facilitators and co-
facilitators for our Bible study groups, which will begin in the 
spring. Even if you are an "uneducated and ordinary man" (or 
woman), you would be amazed at how easy facilitating can be. 
	Training and support will be provided, including four 
training sessions (on Saturday mornings in February) and 
facilitator materials. Each group will have a facilitator and a 
co-facilitator. 

	If you would consider becoming a facilitator, please 
contact Lynn Suwanski at 630-530-2523 or the Parish office at 
630-279-5700. A firm commitment does not need to be made until 
after the training sessions. Also, the facilitators get to select 
when the study group will meet!


Christian Service Commission


Pre-Lenten Mission:

"Resolving Our Conflicts  -  Growing in Care"

Immaculate Conception Parish, Elmhurst.
Saturday, February 5, at 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

	Conflict seems to be a way of life. This day will offer 
constructive ways to explore conflicts, and grow in care.  Tools 
to make our relationships more affirming and hopeful will be 
discussed.

	Father Michael Crosby is a nationally known speaker, and an 
annual presenter at Retreats International at Notre Dame 
University.  He has written 15 books.

	Babysitting is provided.  Suggested Donation of $15.00 
includes continental breakfast and lunch.  Space is limited, and 
reservations are recommended by February 1.  Call 530-3483 for 
reservations. 


Community News


Host Families Sought for
Children of Northern Ireland

	The Irish Children's Fund is seeking host families to 
welcome children from the troubled areas of Northern Ireland into 
their homes during the summer of 2005.  This will be the 24th 
summer that the ICF has brought an equal number of Catholic and 
Protestant children to the Chicago area.  During their visit, the 
children will participate in activities designed to foster the 
spirit of cooperation and friendship, breaking the barriers of 
mistrust they have been brought up with. 

	Upon returning to Northern Ireland, the children have a 
follow-up program available to them through which they can 
continue to come together in ICF-sponsored activities and 
maintain the friendships formed in the United States.

	For additional information, call 630-833-1910.


Youth Groups Reminder

Meeting Dates:  January 30, Feb. 13, and February 27    

Wings to Heaven  5th-8th grade,
6:00-8:00 PM in  Barrett Hall.

Destiny-High school 
8:30-10:10 AM, School Building


Prayer  Requests
	To pray for our sick is an important privilege of our 
parish family.  We hope that you will pray for these persons 
every day, alone or as a family.  Thank you.

	Pam Bondfide	Heather Marie Brennan
	Kathleen Bryers	Rose Caffarelli
	Kathy Calzante	Jim Clynch	
	Jenie Colletti	Trudi Dolato
	John Doyle	Jeannette Elderkin
	Dan Focht	Paul Francetic
	Anna Heffel	Jen Huwalt
	Tom Huwalt	Pat Holmes 
	Maureen James	Tom Janicke
	Irene Kmieciak	Baby Emma Ann Lynde
	Nancy Maloney	Robert Manion
	Bobbi Nannini	Jeff Smith
	Tyler Vincer	Myron Watry

	If you or a family member would like to be included in our 
prayers, please call the rectory at 279-5700.  Also, please let 
us know when a name should be removed.

Rest in Peace

Lillian O'Laughlin


Candlelight Bowl

Friday, February 18th

	The Council of Catholic Women and the Men's Group are co-
hosting a Scotch Doubles Candlelight Bowl at Stardust Bowling 
Lanes, 27 E. Lorraine in Addison.  Dinner will be served at 8:30 
p.m. followed by three games of Scotch doubles (including one 
"crazy bowl" game).  There will be raffles and prizes will be 
awarded.  The cost is $45.00 per couple.  Call your relatives, 
neighbors, and friends and invite them to join in the fun!!

	For reservations, call Mary White (833-9809) or stop at the 
table in the church vestibule starting this weekend.  The final 
deadline for selling tickets will be Sunday, February 13th, but we 
would like to get as many reservations as possible in by the 6th 
so that the bowling alley can make food arrangements.


Christian Education Commission


Religious Education News

Mark Your Calendars:

	Wednesday, February 9th is Ash Wednesday.  There is no 
regular class scheduled for that day.  However, all RE families 
and children are invited to attend a Communion Service with 
Distribution of Ashes at 4 PM. in the church.  If you are not 
free in the afternoon, please plan on your family attending Mass 
with Distribution of Ashes at 7:30 p.m. in church.

	Saturday, February 12th at 5:00 p.m. will be Family Mass.  
Please plan on attending with your family.  We have asked Grade 4 
and their families to be responsible for the readings, gift 
bearing, altar dressing, etc.  Hope to see all of our RE families 
there.

	Reminder to all Parents

	Please caution your children to be extra careful when 
crossing the parking lot, walking on the sidewalks, etc.  We ask 
that all our parents be extra careful as well when driving in and 
out of the parking lot.  With the snowy, icy weather we want all 
of our children to be safe.

Have You Ever Thought 
Of Being a Catechist?

	This is the perfect time to start thinking if you are being 
called to be a catechist in our Religious Education Program next 
fall.  It's a great time to come by on a Wednesday and see what 
goes on after the children arrive.  The only qualification is 
that you love children and you want to share your faith with 
them.  Everything else is provided.  With our enrollment nearing 
the 500 mark, the need for catechists is even greater.  If you 
have ever thought about it or know someone who might be 
interested, call the office for details.

	For more information on any of the above, please call Mary 
Ann Woods at the REO, 832-8962


Parish Library To Open February 20

	Mary Queen of Heaven's new parish library, located at the 
north end of Mary's Gathering Place, will open for the first time 
on Sunday, February 20 from 9:00 a.m. until Noon.  This will 
enable parishioners to have the books available for nearly all of 
Lent-not that we think reading is a form of Lenten penance, but 
rather a chance to deepen our spiritual knowledge.

	Members of the Library Committee have divided the books 
into various categories and color coded each category to help 
parishioners using the library.  Among the topics covered are 
Church History, The Church Today, Theology, Christian Reading, 
Spirituality, Devotional, Saints, Biography, Women, Fiction, 
Psychology, Children, and Young Adults.  In addition, a number of 
magazines will be available in the magazine rack for reading.

	Some additional books have been ordered to fill in the gaps 
in certain categories, which we hope will arrive before February 
20.  There is some overlap between a few of the categories, but 
since ours is a small library this should not present a serious 
problem.  For example, Spirituality focuses on the ideas involved 
in the spiritual life, while Devotional emphasizes the "how to" 
in developing one's spiritual life.  

	The library will be open from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. on 
Saturdays and from 9:00 a.m. to noon on Sundays.  Books may be 
checked out for three weeks at a time by filling out the cards in 
the pockets in the back of each book, and leaving the cards in 
the library.  Members of the Library Committee will be present to 
answer questions during library hours.  

	Anyone wishing to volunteer to help with the work of the 
library should call William Barnds at 630-782-5966.

	William Barnds, a former U.S. government official and 
author, joined the parish last year.  He is also a member of the 
Finance Committee.


Joyful Again!

Widowed and Wondering?

Does it ever get better? - Yes, it does.
Does anything help? - Yes, it does.

	Times	Feb. 12-13, 	Holy Family Parish, Inverness
			Mar.   5-6, 	St. Charles Center 
			Apr.   2-3, 	Lutheran General Hospital

	For more information about our program for widowed men and 
women, please call 708-354-7211.


St. Charles Borromeo Open House

Sunday, Jan. 30, at 10:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. and
Tuesday, Feb. 1, at 9:00 a.m.-11:20 p.m.

	Registration for the 2005-2006 school year will be taken 
during the Open House.  A birth certificate, baptismal 
certificate, social security umber and $40 non-refundable fee are 
required at registration.  For information, please call the 
school office: 766-0116.


Immaculate Conception H.S.
Makeup Placement Test for Class of 2009
Saturday, February 5, at 9:00 a.m.

	The test is open to all 8th grade students who have not 
taken a private high school placement test yet.  Pre-registration 
is required and there is a $25 fee.  Please bring two #2 pencils.  
No calculators or dictionaries allowed.  

	To pre-register, call the main office at 530-3460 by 
Thursday , February 3.


VITAS Hospice Care
Is offering Volunteer Training

	To prepare caring individuals to work with terminally ill 
patients and their families.  Classroom schedule is:

Saturday, and Sunday, February 26 and 27

10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. (both days)

at VITAS Innovative Health Care, Lombard

Topics include palliative care, spiritual care, and family 
dynamics.  For further information call Nancy Petersen, Volunteer 
Services Manager, at 630-268-6237.


Late Nite Catechism

Saturday, February 5, at 7:30 p.m.

Ascension of Our Lord Parish, Oakbrook Terr.

$25 (Includes Pre-performance Reception)
Call Jim Fennell at 630-629-5810, ext. 201.


Love Letters of Support

	We are asking all parishioners to take a moment to write a 
letter to the survivors of the tsunami disaster.  When things 
like this happen it seems that we struggle to know how we can 
help.  Aside from donating money to various relief funds, we as a 
faith community have decided to write letters of love and 
support.  So far some of our religious education classes and our 
wings to heaven youth group have written letters.  They are so 
beautiful and truly demonstrate what a loving community we are.  
I was brought to tears as I read the thoughts and prayers our 
young people wrote.  Please consider being part of this and write 
your letter of support.  We will continue to gather letters for 
the next couple of weeks.

	Letters can be given to Kathleen Gusloff.  There is also be 
a box in the back of church for your letters.  Thank you for 
taking time to help us with this.


Lenten Vatican II Series

	A five-week series on the recommendations of the Vatican II 
Council will be presented during Lent by the Adult Education and 
Spirituality Committee. Hard as it is to believe, this ground-
breaking Council occurred about 40 years ago! The Lenten season 
is a good time to re-familiarize ourselves with the 
recommendations of the Council and to reflect on how they relate 
to the Church in 2005.

	The series will be presented on Tuesday evenings, starting 
on February 15 and through March 15, starting at 7 p.m. in 
Barrett Hall. All adults are invited to come to one or more of 
the sessions; each session includes a video of the Council 
conclusions and guided discussion.



"Gather Books"

	You may have noticed that our "Gather" books are looking 
tattered and many of them have been lost.  A new edition is now 
available.  The cost for each hardcover book, engraved with our 
parish name, is $15.

	Replacing our books would be quite an expense to the 
parish, so we thought perhaps our parishioners would like to 
donate a book.  Every book donated will have a donor bookplate 
with the words, "Gift Of" and your family name, or inscribed with 
the words "In Memory Of."  These books are an important part of 
our liturgies.

	We hope to provide four "Gather" books at each end of our 
pews (8 per pew).  There are forms available in the church 
vestibule.  Please return the form with your check made out to 
Mary Queen of Heaven.  Thank you for your generous contributions 
to our thriving parish.


"Dust Thou Art and 
Unto Dust Thou Shalt Return."

	As in past years, we again plan to burn palms blessed last 
year for use in our upcoming Ash Wednesday services.  If you have 
palms that you wish to return for burning, please do so by  
Wednesday, February 2nd.  This ceremony will take place at the 
8:30 and 10:15 a.m. Masses on Sunday, February 6.  A box will be 
available in the vestibule of church for the palms.


"Just Women"
(Women of Justice)

	This is an opportunity for women to walk with Mary of 
Nazareth, pray with women in scripture, stand in solidarity with 
women who are suffering injustice throughout the world and within 
the United States, and share our own stories.

	When: 		Tuesday, February 1, 7:00 to 9:00 p.m.
				Friday, February 4, 9:00 to 11:00 a.m.

(The same program will be presented on Tuesday evening and on Friday 
morning, to accommodate participants' schedules.)

	Where:  	Barrett Hall

	Facilitator:  Mary Ann Reed  834-4840

	Registration is not required. However a courtesy phone call 
would be appreciated, so that we may know how many people to 
expect.  Please call MaryAnn.


Ice Skating at the "Y"

	The Men's Group is at it again!.  We are sponsoring an Open 
Skate for the entire Parish, all families, children, 
grandchildren, etc on Saturday, February 5, at 2:20 p.m. at the 
Elmhurst Family YMCA.  

	This is a FREE event.  Ice skates are available at no 
charge.  We will have goodies and hot chocolate.  If you have 
questions, call Steve Lindberg at:  630-941-1355.

Super Bowl Party

Sunday, February 6, in Barrett Hall
(Details are posted on bulletin board in Church)


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