Dear Friends,
We live in changing times. This morning, I was thinking about a visit I made last spring to one of our 5th grade Religious Ed classrooms. The children had prepared questions for me and I was very surprised at their sophistication. They were very interested in things about the church, but they seemed even more interested in making connections between the church and the world. This was a wonderful thing. At the same time - especially when I got questions like, "What does the church say about soldiers who go to war?" - I knew that our children are living in a different time from when many of us grew up. This is not to say that we did not worry about war when I was a child. Just last night, I told Kate Achtien (our summertime college student office helper) that when I was in Catholic grammar school, we still had air raid drills in the hallways. But I do not remember being encouraged when I was in 5th grade to ask questions about what the church had to say about war. How the times have changed.
Another question I was asked by one of our 5th graders was this: "What does the Church say about capital punishment?" It is this question that brings me to write to you today, especially because of an event coming up next month at Elmhurst College. Let me come back to this.
I remember my feeling of surprise when I was asked this question. I felt a little apprehension, too. I remember beginning my response by telling the children that some of their own families might not even know the answer to this question, because the church has evolved in its teaching on this matter over the years.
While the Church recognizes the right of governments to establish capital punishment, increasingly, church teaching has stressed the fact that today, other means can be used to protect society from dangerous criminals. Even the Catechism of the Catholic Church adds this caveat when talking about the death penalty: "If...non-lethal means are sufficient to defend and protect people's safety from the aggressor, authority will limit itself to such means, as these are more in keeping with the concrete conditions of the common good and more in conformity with the dignity of the human person."
Pope John Paul II, in his encyclical Evangelium Vitae (The Gospel of Life) said that cases for executing offenders are very rare if not practically nonexistent, with developments in modern penal systems. He makes opposition to the death penalty a pro- life position:
The new evangelization calls for followers of Christ who are unconditionally pro-life: who will proclaim, celebrate and serve the Gospel of life in every situation. A sign of hope is the increasing recognition that the dignity of human life must never be taken away, even in the case of someone who has done great evil. Modern society has the means of protecting itself, without definitively denying criminals the chance to reform. (Evangelium Vitae)
Our United States Catholic Bishops have taken a strong position against the death penalty since 1980. This year, on March 21, 2005, the U.S. Catholic Bishops launched the Catholic Campaign to End the Use of the Death Penalty in the United States. The campaign's website, www.ccedp.org, includes an explanation of the Church's teaching and resources for education and action.
Related to this, there is an event coming up at Elmhurst College that I would encourage everyone to attend. On Wednesday, September 14 at 7:30 p.m., Sister Helen Prejean, CSJ, will deliver the Joseph Cardinal Bernardin Lecture in Hammerschmidt Memorial Chapel. Her topic is: "Dead Man Walking: The Journey Continues."
You may know that Sister Prejean is the author of the book, Dead Man Walking, which was made into a movie and later, an opera. She has also written a new book titled The Death of Innocents: An Eyewitness Account of Wrongful Executions.
I know, because I heard a previous presentation by Sister Prejean, that she has also witnessed executions of persons who were clearly guilty for their crimes. Yet, her experience of ministering - both with the guilty and with the families of victims of violent crimes - makes a compelling argument against the death penalty. Having heard Sister Prejean speak, I can tell you that she is also a skilled and powerful presenter who will hold your interest at every moment of her talk.
It just so happens that Sept. 14 is our first evening of Religious Education, so I know that there are some parents who will not be able to attend Sister Prejean's talk. To everyone else, please do, if you can. Childcare is available by calling (630) 617-3222 in advance. You will find Sr. Helen Prejean to be an inspiring woman who challenges all of us to examine our views on the death penalty more carefully. As you consider attending Sister Prejean's talk, please also consider these words of our U.S. Bishops:
We cannot overcome crime by simply executing criminals, nor can we restore the lives of the innocent by ending the lives of those convicted of their murders. The death penalty offers the tragic illusion that we can defend life by taking life.
We do live in changing times. Thanks be to God for all, children and adults, who seek to make connections between the church and our lives in the world.
Mary Foley, Pastoral Life Coordinator
Rachel's Vineyard Retreats For post-abortive men and women Sponsored by the Joliet Diocesan Life Office Retreats are scheduled for Sept. 23-25, 2005, March 3-5, 2006, and Sept 22-24, 2006 and will be held at the St. Charles Borromeo Pastoral Center in Romeoville. Confidentiality and privacy will be strictly observed. To learn more about a Rachel's Vineyard Retreat or to register, contact Kay Corcoran at 815-838-7171. For more information and a list of retreats in other locations, visit the website at www.rachelsvineyard.org or call the toll-free national hotline at 1-877-HOPE-4ME. Volunteer Tutors Needed The Sisters of St. Joseph of LaGrange Park are seeking volunteers for its adult literacy program, School on Wheels. Tutors are needed to teach one hour per week from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. or 3-8 p.m. in Woodridge, Hodgkins, Berwyn, Summit, Villa Park or Westmont. Training provided August 29-30 and August 31 - September 1, from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. You must attend one two-day training session. No prior second language skills are needed. For more information: 708-354-9200, est. 5060, 5085 or 5037. Diocesan News Crafters' Holiday Looking for a place to sell your beautiful handcrafts? St. Alexander's Annual Crafters' Holiday 230 S. Cornell, Villa Park Saturday, October 29, 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. $30 per space with your table; $40 with our table. Call Pat (941)-8592) or Marianne (834-2183) for an application and further details. Parish Commission/PPC Meeting The August All Parish Commissions Meeting has been rescheduled for Monday, August 29, at 7:00 p.m., when they will meet together with the Parish Pastoral Council for a special presentation. The PPC will meet afterwards at 8:30 p.m. RCIA Our journey through life is seldom a straight path. Our personal choices or decisions that others make for us can impact our lives including our spiritual lives. * Are you, or do you know of someone who was baptized in the Catholic faith, but for various reasons never completed their sacramental preparation by receiving Eucharist and Confirmation? * Perhaps your family moved frequently, or you never connected to a parish family in your younger years and were not part of a Religious Education program. * Have you been attending Mass with your Catholic spouse, and have an interest in learning more about the Catholic faith? * Do you know someone who is interested in becoming Catholic? If you can relate to these situations, consider completing your sacramental preparation by looking into the RCIA! Contact Mimi Wolak at 941-3851 to learn more about how you can enrich your spiritual life through full participation in the life of the church through the sacraments. New Gather Books-Choir Edition Thanks to the generous response of parishioners, we will be able to replace our Gather Book hymnals in church with almost twice as many new books. Music Director Molly Lindberg has recommended that we purchase the brand new edition of the Gather hymnal, which costs the same but contains much new music. We will still use the green Gather Books, placing them in Barrett Hall for use with overflow Masses and Religious Ed children. Since we are purchasing the new edition, the choir will need new books. These cost $25 each and, like the congregation books, may be donated by parishioners. If you would like to donate a choir book with your inscription inside, please fill out the order form found in this bulletin or in the back of church. Parish Feast Day The feast day of Mary Queen of Heaven will be celebrated on Sunday, August 28, with an outdoor Mass at 10:15 a.m. Our Mass will be held between the church and school building, directly behind Barrett Hall. Should the weather be inclement, Mass will be held in the Church. Following Mass there will be Fellowship, sponsored by the Men's Group, in Barrett Hall. This is a great opportunity for our parish families to meet and become better acquainted with each other, while enjoying conversation and refreshments (coffee, tea, juice and sweets). We look forward to seeing you and your family on this special occasion. Parish News "Evening Under the Stars" Auction/Dinner Dance Plans are well under way for our "Evening Under the Stars" Auction/Dinner Dance which will be held on Friday, October 7, at Alta Villa Banquets in Addison. Letters have been sent to businesses seeking donations for our Live and Silent Auctions. We need people to help follow up on these letters, to call and visit the businesses we have written to in an effort to obtain as many donations as possible. Do you have some time to spare and help us with this task? Without the help of willing parishioners, the task of obtaining items from businesses for the auctions will make our efforts fruitless. We need you! Volunteers are also needed to help with decorations, parishioner donations, ticket sales, raffle tickets, etc. If you can help in any of the above areas, call Sheila Reiter at 630- 833-6657, or attend our meeting on Thursday, August 18, at 7:00 p.m. in Barrett Hall. This is the eighth year for our "Evening Under the Stars" Auction/Dinner Dance and many are looking forward to a wonderful evening socializing with parishioners and friends, and the opportunity to purchase auction items at great prices that can be given as gifts for the holidays or special occasions. The proceeds from this benefit will be used to support our Church Mission of reaching out to those who are hungry, sick and otherwise in need; supporting our youth; and supporting our various parish ministries. Prayer Requests To pray for our sick is an important privilege of our parish family. We hope that you will pray for these persons every day, alone or as a family. Thank you. Pam Bondfide John Brennan Kathleen Bryers Pat Caffarelli Rose Caffarelli Kathy Calzante Cosmore Ciancio Paul Cirone Rhonda Colletti Trudi Dolato Dino Fuggitti Anna Heffel Jen Huwalt Tom Huwalt Pat Holmes Maureen James Tom Janicke Valorie Kaffka Irene Kmieciak Bernadette Kohn John Lane Baby Emma Lynde Robert Manion Bobbi Nannini Joe Prinske Vincent Scilluffo Jeff Smith Karen Sutkus Cathy Ward If you or a family member would like to be included in our prayers, please call the rectory at 279-5700. Also, please let us know when a name should be removed. Christian Worship Commission WEDDING ANNIVERSARY MASS Registration Form Celebrate the Anniversaries of Marriage at the Cathedral of St. Raymond, Joliet, Sunday, August 28, 2005, 3:00 p.m. Last Name of Couple__________________________________________ Husband________________________Wife________________________ Address_____________________________________________________ City_____________________Zip___________Phone________________ Parish you Attend_________________________City________________ Date of Marriage________________________# of Yrs. Married______ # of children_____ # grandchildren_____ # great- grandchildren_____ ____# of additional guests attending (Limit of 4 guests, please) Please return this form by August 12 to: The Center for Family Ministry 402 S. Independence Blvd. Romeoville, IL 60446-2264 FAX: 815-834-4045 Email: familyministry@dioceseofjoliet.org For more information, call (815) 838-5334. Joliet Diocese 50th Anniversary Mass Sunday, August 28 The Diocese of Joliet will hold its 27th annual Wedding Anniversary Mass on Sunday, August 28, at 3:00 p.m. at the Cathedral of St. Raymond in Joliet. All couples and their families, no matter how many years married, are invited to attend the event (maximum of four guests per couple, please). During the liturgy, Bishop Imesch will lead the couples in a renewal of their marriage vows. Couples celebrating 25, 50, and more than 50 years of marriage will receive a special certificate. Please pre-register by completing and returning the form by August 12, 2005. For more information, please call 815-838-5334. 14th Annual Back to School Fair Wednesday, August 10, at 11:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. DuPage County Fairgrounds in Wheaton. Approximately 100 agencies will provide a variety of information and free health services for children, newborn to 18 years. The health services include immunizations, dental and lead screenings. A limited number of physical exams (grades K, 5, and 9) will be available at the Fair. Participants should call Elmhurst Hospital at 630-782-7878 to schedule a free appointment. Parents will find information regarding financial assistance, child care, affordable housing, legal needs, education & career opportunities, voter registration, nutrition, social security, car seat safety, D.A.R.E. cars, bicycle helmets, clowns and more! A ten-dollar voucher for the purchase of school supplies will be given to each eligible student in the family. Interpreters will be available, and it is required that a parent or guardian accompany the children. Please bring proof of income and residency, identification for each child in your family and any health information that may relate to the health services that are being sought. For more information, call Mary S. Tarnow, Catholic Charities, at 630-495- 8008. Let's Celebrate! Mary Queen of Heaven's 50th Anniversary Our Parish's 50th Anniversary is around the corner and we are making plans for a year-long celebration. How about joining our committee? Our first planning meeting is scheduled for Thursday, September 1, at 7:30 p.m. in Barrett Hall. We need your input and are especially looking for information on parish history from long-time parishioners. Several people have already volunteered to help out but we need many more hands to make this a real Parish Celebration. We invite all parishioners interested in helping to join us at this first meeting. A lot of "brainstorming" will be done in an effort to have as many events as possible to mark this special occasion. Be sure to mark September 1 on your calendar and bring your ideas along to our meeting. For further information or questions, please contact Sheila Reiter (833-6657) or Ellen Walker (279-4021). Religious Education News Witnessing for future Catholics With the addition of our new session this year, we have been challenged with finding over 20 more catechists for our RE program. This is in addition to the usual reasons for needing your help; catechists facing job changes, changing their ministry, or just taking a rest from teaching on Wednesday afternoons or evenings. Therefore we need you to seriously consider the ministry of catechesis. At a time when children are being confronted with conflicting values, God may be calling you to walk the faith journey with them. We need you to talk the talk and walk the walk of faith with the children of the parish. Many of you have already responded to our plea and for that the parish and our children are most grateful. Listed below are the teaching slots that still need to be filled. If you feel God tugging at your sleeve or maybe just one of us at the parish, please contact us at the REO, 832-8962 or MQHREO@juno.com. Wednesday, 3:15-4:30 p.m. Grade Four - three catechists Wednesday, 5:15-6:30 p.m. Grade Three - one catechist Grade Six - one catechist Grade Eight - two catechists Wednesday, 7:15-8:30 p.m. Grade Six - one catechist In addition we are in need of people to help direct traffic in the parking lot at all three sessions. The safety of our children is always our first concern. Have you registered yet? Just a reminder, registrations are still being accepted at all grade levels, except Kindergarten at session one. This class is filled. Remember that we do not place children on class lists the week of our first in-class session, which this year is September 21. So if you want your children to start on time, register now. FYI-some of our classes are reaching capacity at certain session times, for example, Gr. 5 at session two. Mark your calendars for our opening event on Wednesday, September 14, at 6:30 p.m. in church. Our family concert is back! Pass the word to your friends and neighbors. You won't want to miss it. For more info on any of the above, please call Mary Ann Woods at the REO, 832-8962. L.O.S.S. (Loving Outreach to Survivors of Suicide) Upcoming 10 - Session Group The L.O.S.S. Outreach Program provides services to those who are grieving a death by suicide of a family member or close friend. Eight weekly sessions and 2 monthly follow-up meetings for the newly bereaved and/or new members will be offered: Catholic Charities Diocese of Joliet 26 West St. Charles Road Lombard, IL 60148 Thursdays: Sept. 8, 15, 22, 29 Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27 Nov. 10 and Dec. 15 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. Deadline to register: August 29 We need at least 10 people signed up to convene a group. Call Christine O'Donnell at 1-800-240-7011 to register. L.O.S.S. is a program provided by Catholic Charities. Christian Worship Commission Joliet Diocese Catholic Charismatic Healing Mass Friday, August 19, Mass at 7:30 p.m. Sacrament of Reconciliation - 6:30 p.m. St. Joseph Catholic Church, Downers Grove For information, please call 630-964-0216 Employment Opportunity Catholic Theological Union in Chicago (CTU) invites applications for the position of Administrative Assistant to the Registrar, who assists the Registrar in general office procedures and operations, providing professional service and hospitality to all students, faculty, staff and visitors in person and by the phone. This person will need outstanding communication skills, organization, and in-depth expertise in software applications such as Access, Excel and Word, and be committed to the mission of CTU. BA degree preferred. Experience in an educational setting and bi-lingual in any language preferred. Please send cover letter and resume to: Human Resources, Catholic Theological Union, 5401 S. Cornell, Chicago, Illinois 60615. E-mail cover letter and resume in Word format only to: hgorham@ctu.edu Visit: www.ctu.edu